We get a few of these “bank holidays” every year, where banks, schools, businesses, and government offices are closed.  We observe them by taking the day off and not getting mail (although hospitals, gas stations, and restaurants stay open, so not everyone gets the day off).  But every time one comes up, it’s important to teach our kids why this day is special in our national and community life.  It’s not just about getting a day off.

Memorial Day has been observed since the Civil War, when it was first established to pay tribute to the Union war dead.  It was later expanded to include tributes to the fallen of any American war.  Memorial Day is a day to fly our American flags, discuss the place of sacrifice in maintaining freedom, and to thank a veteran–because even if they didn’t die, they sacrificed.

Many families also take this day to visit the graves of loved ones.  This is an excellent activity to share with children.  It shows them that we remember those who came before us, and that we still care about them even after they’ve gone.  It’s a good time to share family stories, and to point out how we are all connected to people we may never have met. 

Enjoy your day off (if you get one), and remind your kids about the sacrifices other people made so that they could enjoy their day today.  Have a happy Memorial Day!

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