Children will usually say “I don’t know” when asked about things they have done or didn’t do when you expected them to deliver. This response is a classic and many children may actually mean it when they say they do not know. Parents then end up getting frustrated and prod for more questions. This often results to asking questions that will not get answers as children will most likely withdraw and retreat from getting the third degree.

Experts say that asking the right questions is the key. It teaches the kids to own up to their actions and mistakes.

For instance, instead of asking “Why did you do that?” ask “What did you do?” or “What happened?” Answering this will help children see the consequences of their actions. The process of explaining to you, is actually letting them see the error of their ways, so to speak. Allowing the child to describe what happened makes her see her behavior and hopefully, come into a realization and self-awareness.

The next question to ask then is “What can you do instead?” to help the child come up ways and solutions. This process teaches the child to develop sharper decision making skills and life-skills that he will need when he is an adult.

You can also ask the question, “What would have happened if you didn’t do that?” It increases their self-awareness and the way they know themselves.

These basic questions, according to expert takes the blame off and makes productive, thinking individuals of your kids.

With sources from Parenting & Children at About.com

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While there are a lot of talented musicians out there, it can be a lot harder to find some really family-friendly fare. Many musicians don’t cater to the younger set, and while many parents may love the tunes by the more popular artists (Lady Gaga, anyone?) finding something for both parents and their musical children can be frustrating.

Kidz Bop tries to make the differences a bit more livable, by taking many popular songs and changing some of the more questionable lyrics. While this works out for music that may not be great for kids, or at least a but more on the questionable side, many groups are still wondering if the idea is even a workable one. After all, having a nine year old singing about broken hearts and falling in love may seem a bit more ridiculous than many may be able to overlook.

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Booster seats, when compared even to last year, have been showing improvements in leaps and bounds. Booster seats have long been a source of worry for many due to safety concerns and improper, or hard to adjust safety features.

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A good sleeping schedule is impotent for many parts of waking like. A good sleep schedule can do a lot more than making sure that a little one is in a good mood the next day.

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Study shows that the human body is estimated to be 60% to 70% made of water. Water regulates body temperature and allows the nutrients to travel to all the vital organs.The following are just few benefits of letting your child drink water.

• Water is important for their digestion. It helps the body get rid of waste in form of sweat and urine.
• Water plays a vital role in your child’s immune system. It helps the kidneys and liver to function well and eliminate toxins from the blood.
• Water keeps their joints lubricated.
• Water helps the muscles and organs to work efficiently.
• Water reduces craving for sweets which often causes dehydration.

But the real question is, How can you get your tots to chug the world’s healthiest drink?

• Serve it cold- Kids usually love cold water. If your anxious about letting your child drink ice-cold water, try mixing half ice cold water and lukewarm water. Or use a transparent glass with different fancy shaped ice. Your child will definitely enjoy watching while the ice melt  while sipping his drink. But be reminded that you can use this tip once in awhile because drinking too much cold water can expend double the energy to maintain the ideal body temperature.
• Put a little flavor and color – Naturally kids prefer sweet drinks. (Who doesn’t?) So to keep them drinking water try adding a pinch of sugar, a lemon strip or a mint strip.
• Accessible water station – Always have a pitcher of water in the refrigerator, on the countertop, or beside table.  Keeping it within your little ones line of sight will set off a positive signal to drink water whenever he is thirsty.
• Do it with them – Make it a habit as a family. Have a water chart and whoever gets the highest points will get a prize.

This is also a way for you to teach your kids  the other uses of water. You can make them easily understand this by purchasing  this dream kitchen.

This product will help your child understand the value of “water” in their lives. They basically need it:

• for cooking
• for cleaning
• for washing etc.

Where to buy:  Lifestyle Deluxe Kitchen

Price: $219.99

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