Communicating and Providing for Children Today


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Jul
29
By: bryboy | Discussion (1)

Kids will always want something each Christmas and mostly this is pointed towards electronic gadgets and toys. But one hindrance is the fact that not all parents may be able to sustain such a want, having to buckle down and save some bucks for their families to survive.

Making kids understand that such a debacle is something that is beyond their control is hard to do. At their age, they still don’t know what it means to earn and get steady income. But there are some kids who could be enticed to try out the things that they see and this includes instances where you get rid of the old by selling old toys and saving up to buy new ones.

In a sense, this is hitting two birds with one stone. You are getting rid of old stuff that normally stay hidden in your closet and also start to learn how to earn a decent buck. To many earning is the best part but at some point they will understand that getting rid of old toys that may soon find their way to the garbage can, is a golden way of learning to turn trash into gold.

These straitened times have brought out a different kind of holiday spirit in children like Faith: the entrepreneurial spirit of Christmas presents. As many parents cut back on holiday spending this year, their children are figuring out ways to get the money to buy what they really want. They are asking their parents to post ads online to sell their old stuff or to hawk it on eBay. Some are showing up with used gadgets, toys and game consoles at malls and fast-food chains where people congregate.

(Source) The Wall Street Journal



Mar
22
By: Lira | Discussion (0)

Screen shot 2011-03-22 at 2.09.43 PMThe recent events around the world has, once again, reaffirm my belief that we are living on borrowed time here on earth and everything can be easily taken away from us. We keep ourselves so busy with other activities that sometimes, we sacrifice quality time that should be spent with our kids.

Even without all these threats of disasters and crisis, it must be every parent’s objective to really be able to bond with their children. Because, before you know it, the kids are all grown up and you would have missed the chance to get to know them.

Here are a few helpful points to spending quality time with your young ones especially when everything around you is buzzing with activity:

Take a special time in the day to just focus on one child each. Maybe during breakfast, you and the youngest can talk about what they’re expecting from their day over cereals. And then take after dinners as a time to sit and chat with the elder kids. Just focus on them, allow them to share what they wanna share, even if it’s as trivial as one kid crying in class. Make sure to keep this special times as regular as possible.

Have date nights or date weekends with each of your child. I know one parent who takes her eldest to the nail spa every 2nd Saturday of the week, while the other child has a date with his mother every fourth Saturday of the week. This way the kids will have something to look forward to. Keep this dates and appointments all the time.

Bonding with your children is really important even if you’re busy. Parents have to make time to get to know their kids.

What’s your special bonding ritual with your kids? And how often do you do this?



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