There is a stage in a child’s development where he would seem to be saying no to everything you ask. They become uncooperative and some would even resort to tantrums. Asking children to cooperate can be tricky, because parents may end up bribing the kids into doing what must be done, without really teaching them any value or lesson.
So what can parents do?
Often, kids respond well when asked to do a task that is fun. Be creative and devise the task into something like a game so that the child will not see this so much as a chore. It can be as simple as racing who gets to clean up their room faster.
When they throw a little tantrum, don’t also be throwing a tantrum yourself, as the parent. Listen to their feelings first to know where this is coming from. Bear in mind that children act out because they need to be heard. So, hear them out.
Don’t forget to complement your child for things he does. This will encourage the child to do the same behavior, if you positively respond to it as well.
Give them choices. At least with giving choices, you let them feel that they too can make decisions. If you’re cleaning the room together, for instance, you can ask their opinion about where his towels or jackets must be placed. Little things like this can boost his self-esteem and he will eventually develop better attitude.