A high school in the United Kingdom is seeking to ban the use of make-up, saying that this promotes materialism among kids, and losing sight of what is really important. The ban takes effect as teachers have been observing that the girls spend way more time doing their make-up and socializing in the girls’ bathroom, rather than actually paying attention to school work. The banning also includes use of mirror.

School officials have a new task of checking the girls’ bags and confiscate anything that looks like make up. Products that work to remove eyeliners, lipstick and the like are also going to be offered. The public school system is really serious about getting these girls to get their priorities straight.

Kids as young as 12 years old have started wearing make up to school and the ban is imposed on those below 16 years of age.

Some parents are in support of this and commends the school for imposing such a rule. The children, however, think it’s unfair saying that while too much make-up can be distracting, too little also brings the same results.

If you’re a parent with a daughter who wears make up to school, where do you draw the line? Thankfully, my daughter and his friends are fine with the way they look. They get by with lip glosses and powder blush now and then, but they don’t obsess with too much products just yet.

Will you support such a ruling like this if it does come to your children’s school?

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I was browsing through a list of writing prompts, when this one caught my eye:

Do you agree with this statement: Parents are the best teachers?

We say that a lot, and we all assume we know what we mean by it.

If we mean “best” in that they teach the best things, and can be trusted to provide the best guidance to their children, then I don’t think we can say yes unequivocally.  Even if parents should be trustworthy, many aren’t.

But if we mean “best” in the sense that their lessons stick longer and are more deeply ingrained than any others, then I would say yes.  For better or worse, the “teaching” parents do lasts a lifetime.

Parents teach on purpose of course–we show a toddler how to snap his pants, we show a kindergartner how to tie her shoes, we teach siblings to share and teenagers to follow through on their obligations.  But the most significant and life-forming teaching parents do happens simply by the way parents live their lives.

Simply by living and talking in the presence of their children, parents teach an immense amount–in most cases far more than they are aware of.  Without even trying, parents can teach their children honesty, honor, kindness, gratitude, self-control, spirituality, work ethic, optimism, respect, and affection.

Conversely, with no conscious thought on their part, parents can teach their children dishonesty, cheating, cruelty, entitlement, self-indulgence, materialism, laziness, cynicism, disrespect, and selfishness.

For better or worse, we aren’t even usually aware that these are the lessons our children are learning from us.  But they do learn them, and their lives are formed by them.  Studies show–and common sense indicates–that the values and choices of parents will be emulated by their children.  Of course, there are exceptions–thoughtful people have always chosen different paths than the ones laid out for them.  And most people go through a period of life when they consciously reject their parents’ values.  But for the most part, more often than not, people return to the values they grew up with when they become adults.

So, in that sense, parents are the  best teachers.  The lessons parents teach last a lifetime.  Very few classroom teachers can say the same thing.