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Oct
02
By: angelie | Discussion (0)

Playing is one way of nurturing your relationship with your kids,  so choosing the toys that is appropriate for them is very important.  As a parent, you should know the toys that will  offer fun and knowledge to your little ones.

The following are just few questions to know if it’s the right toy to buy for your kids:

  • Is it appropriate for his/her age?
  • Is it educational?
  • Is it safe for your child to play with it?

Spending money for the right toy will save you a lot of energy.  Toy guns are a big no-no for your little boys because it only promotes violence. Always keep in mind that what your child plays, it reflects what his surrounding is, or what kind of people is he with, or maybe what lifestyle he has. Choosing the right toys will help you and your child understand each other.

hopscotch carpet

price: $39.95

This hopscotch carpet  makes them go crazy with numbers. Children ages 4 and up will enjoy jumping and counting with this colorful carpet. This is made of soil resistant nylon material that can be played outside of your house. Your child will learn the numbers from 1-10, and the primary and secondary colors with no pressure at all. What’s more fun about this is that adults can even play with it, they’ll have a fun bonding time with their kids.

This product has been a great motivation especially for preschool students. Lakeshore has been producing varieties of materials that will help the little ones to learn new things with excitement. You can visit them at  www.lakeshorelearning.com

Great recommended read from around our network:

Geeky and Fabulous Toys for Tots

Eco-friendly Toys

Spending Time

Tags: boys and girls, family time, kids, money, parents, playing, relationships

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Jul
31
By: kathy2 | Discussion (1)

Image Courtesy of CoolBaby.com

Image Courtesy of CoolBaby.com

Kaboost is an alternative to booster seats or  high chairs.  The idea is that it has these adjustable arm things, so that instead of raising up a short kid by putting him on a booster chair or even in a high chair, you just raise the chair up, so the child sits squarely in the chair and at the right height just like everyone else.

Now, I’m not saying it’s not a kind of cool idea.  It does make it so that a little kid can sit on a chair  like everyone else and not be set apart or infantilized by having a special baby-ish chair.  And it does, admittedly, reduce the chances of the booster chair sliding sideways off the big chair and the kid landing on the floor.  In addition, it’s all plastic, so it won’t do any damage to your carpet or floor.  And it’s portable, so you can take it to a restaurant or Grandma’s house or whatever.

But this is one of those things that makes me wonder why bother with it?   At $37.95 each, you have to have some extra pocket change to get one, anyway–and that puts it in my category of things rich parents buy not because their kids really need them, but because they have the money to buy them.

For $37.95, my kid can sit on a couple of phone books.  I did a pretty thorough search, and I came across no reports of any child being injured by sitting on a phone book, and no reports of any child’s self-esteem taking such a hit that they grew up to be mentally unstable.

So, rich parents, knock yourselves out.  Kaboost seems like a cool thing to have.  I think the rest of us will just stick to normal booster chairs and their inexpensive substitutes.

Tags: adjustable arm, booster chair, booster seats, carpet, cool thing, grandma, high chair, high chairs, inexpensive substitutes, kaboost, little kid, money, phone book, phone books, rich parents, self esteem

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Jul
27
By: kathy2 | Discussion (0)

View ImageThere’s not a parent out there that needs to be reminded that times are pretty tough right now.  More and more families are struggling financially, trying to either get on their feet or stay there.  People miss a payment here or there and credit scores tank, which hits the entire economy.  After all, if your credit is bad, you can’t get a car or a home equity loan or buy a new house or get a credit card to fund your vacation.  And the more money you’re not spending in the marketplace, the less money all those people out there are making in their turn, as well.

There are some sites that can help with that.  One of the best new sites that I’ve come across is CashSubsidy.com, The Cash and Finance Blog.    This site has several things to offer a parent who’s trying to keep finances on track. 

First of all, there are articles about everyday family things, such as wise management of finances and the pros and cons of using a debt consolidation service.  It also covers the general state of business and the economy–in a general overview sort of way, giving us enough information to keep un knowledgeable, but not so much that we can’t get through it. 

It defines terms for its readers, as well as offering resources such as books, links, and information about conferences and other financial helps. 

Keep in mind this is a new site, and its resources are still growing.  Still, with the way it’s begun, parents will find this a helpful place to start looking for the guidance they need to stay on their feet financially.

Tags: conferences, credit card, credit scores, debt consolidation service, economy, everyday family, finance, guidance, home equity loan, marketplace, money, offering resources, parents, pros and cons, tank, wise management

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Jun
16
By: kathy2 | Discussion (0)

Madonna

Image courtesy of US Magazine

This story has been going on for quite a while, but it seems to be drawing to close.  A Malawi Supreme Court Judge has approved Madonna’s application to adopt 3-year-old Chifundo “Mercy” James. 

The problem had to do with a residency law that said that to adopt a Malawian child, you have to live in Malawi for 18-24 months.  The Malawian government didn’t enforce that law with Madonna’s other Malawian child, David, but for some reason in this case it decided to crack down.  The case went to the Supreme Court, where the judge ruled that it was an “old law,” and that Mercy should be with Madonna.

Apparently things will move pretty fast now.  The little girl’s papers and passport will be prepared over the weekend, and Madonna should be able to take her home by the middle of next week.

Madonna released a statement through her rep, saying, “I am extremely grateful for the Supreme Court’s ruling on my application to adopt Mercy James.”

I’m glad they approved this.  I’m not a fan of Madonnna, but if I had her kind of money, I’d adopt more kids.  I like to see people with virtually unlimited resources like Madonna and the Jolie-Pitts using them to increase love and nurture in the world.

Tags: adoption, little girl, love, madonna, madonnna, malawi, mercy james, money, nurture, passport, supreme court judge, unlimited resources

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Apr
02
By: kathy2 | Discussion (0)

Carrie Taylor sits with her children, Madison and Ashley, as they place their allowance in their piggy banks in their Fort Gratiot home.

Kids aren’t stupid.  They know that something is going on.  They hear the news and read headlines that shout about recession, downturn, layoffs, depression, decline…and they worry.  They worry even more if you and your spouse are worried. 

Kids need security, but they need it to come honestly.  So, how can you talk to your kids about the economic hard times that most Americans are facing without scaring them?  Here are some tips.

  • Avoid TMI.  Kids don’t need to know the gory details.  If your 401K has declined, that’s not for them to worry about.  Stick to general truths and overall pictures.

 

  • Be honest with the big picture.  Kids need to know that there’s going to be a little less money for extras.  They can handle it.  Even if the belt tightening is more severe that you hoped, let them know what’s going on.  You can even say, “It’s a little harder than we expected.”

 

  • Enlist their help.  Remind them to turn off lights, and to wear a sweater instead of turning the heat up.  Tell them that the big family vacation is not possible this year, but then get their suggestions for fun activities closer to home. 

 

  • Stay positive.  Hard times don’t last forever, and much of life’s sweetness transcends money.  Remind the kids that the sacrifices are temporary, and point out that it doens’t have to affect their enjoyment of theit favorite things. 

 

  • Reach out.  It helps all of us, kids included, to be reminded that even if things are hard, we’re better off than some people are.  Volunteer to help at a food pantry or soup kitchen.  It reminds you of your blessings, and it makes you a part of the solution.  Kids have a heart for the suffering, and can learn these lessons alongside everyone else.

Kids know something is going on, so don’t make them more anxious by hiding things from them.  Let them in on it, appropriately for their age and understanding.  After all, economic hard times affect the whole family.

 

*Photo courtesty of the Austin TimesHerald.com

Tags: 401k, big picture, blessings, decline, depression, downturn, family vacation, favorite things, food pantry, fun activities, gory details, headlines, heart, layoffs, money, recession, sacrifices, soup kitchen, suffering, sweetness

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