Does your toddler love to twist and shout whenever he hears music playing? Be glad! it’s a step in the right direction. Your little one may seem to have only recently caught the dancing bug, but in fact he’s been perfecting those moves for well over a year. Even when you held up your 6-month-old so he could stand stand on your lap, he was probably practicing some rhythmic knee bends. And After a few months after your child took his first unassisted steps, he most likely began to saunter or sway his body from side to side whenever he heard music playing.

The rocking and reeling is an obvious sign of your toddler improving physical activities but don’t overlook all the incredible mental work that also goes into gettin’ joggy with it. When your child dances, messages are quickly sent ot the brains about the body’s orientation inspace. The brain then tells the body exactly how to respond, in which direction your  child’s eyes ought to be pointed, how she should use her arms and brace her legs in order to maintain her sense of balance, and so forth.

You can incorporate dancing into your child’s playtime. Make space so your child can move about freely and safely. Don’t be shy, join in on the fun, even if you have two left feet. Don’t be afraid to get up close and personal. Let your child dance on your feet, and bop around together. Remember that kids love when their parents act silly. It can be a big relief not to feel like someone is always in charge. Happy dancing this Christmas season!

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Kids Playing Outside, courtesy of www.rsspieces.com

That’s what my mother would call out to me and my brother as we casually, usually absentmindedly, informed her that we were going  outside to play.

That was more than twenty-five years ago. Over the past two decades, things have changed for kids in America.

Single parents – like my mom – still had to work in order to pay the  bills. Which meant that she couldn’t be there when we got home after
school let out but that didn’t mean that we didn’t have our  instructions: homework first, chores second, then playtime. Sometimes
we even fixed our own dinners. But that’s just the way it was and that’s the way it is for a lot of families.

What’s different is that, over the past twenty-five years, in direct response to fear of child predators, Social Services mis-interpreting a familial situation and the staggering cost of childcare, parents have equated indoor-time as the lesser of two evils.

But, what that’s left us with is a whole generation of kids, who are now having families of their own, who are raising their children as
they themselves were raised. For the most part, hours spent in front of a computer screen is considered constructive and parents tout the advantage their child gains by continually gaming.

In the mean time, no one is playing outside.

Studies have proven that those children who regularly play outdoors tend to play more imaginatively, have lower stress levels, and have a greater respect for themselves, for others, and for the environment. Not to mention that they’ll be creating memories that will last their
entire lives and learn how to interact with other in a way that no on-line environment could hope to duplicate.

I can tell you more disputes got settled on my side porch with a more satisfying outcome than any disagreement started in any chat room. The afternoons, early evenings, and seemingly endless Sundays significantly contributed to who I am today just like all these kids,
staying at home, playing by themselves day after day, interacting with a computer screen, will have a life-long affect on them. Playing
‘Kick-the-Bucket’ with a bunch of neighbourhood kids in my side yard, sliding on the grass and getting bumped and bruised is nothing like
playing ‘Kick-the-Bucket’ by myself on my Wii. Grass stains can’t be ‘virtualized’ and the smiles and memories that come from playing
outside can’t be duplicated with a hand-held, intuitive, wand.

Encourage your child to turn off the monitor and go out and play. There’s a time and place for everything and that includes playing
outside and staying within earshot of our parents.

Who knows… With any luck, the next generation of children will have to be told that they have to come in and ‘do’ their computer time before they can go back outside and play some more.

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