With kids as young as 4 years old playing with the iPad, there are actually some very useful and kid-friendly iPad cases you can use so that the gadget doesn’t get easily damaged. While the gadget may be so easy to understand by children, they may not, however, understand just how expensive this is. I’ve known of parents who have newly-bought iPads only to discover that their children have accidentally dropped this while using it.

One such protector is the Big Grips Frame which comes with the Big Grip Stand:

This item is constructed using lightweight foam that is quote durable as well. The grip frame actually works as a soft protective case. It’s designed to be easily grabbed and very comfortable to hold. The frame is mounted on a grip stand that can work in either a portrait or landscape orientation.

Using these Big Grips add on is ideal for web surfing while on the table or couch, or for watching movies and playing games. The parent will not have to worry about mishandling it. The grip frame and stand keeps the iPad secure.

These cost about $34.95 and $24.95 respectively, but you can get it a discounted price of $49.95, if you buy this as a set. This grip and stand come in bright, exciting colors the kids will love — Fresh Green, Electric Blue, Carnation Pink and Steel Grey.

You can buy the item and check the specs further on this site.

Image courtesy of Network of Citizens.org

Yesterday’s Canadian Press ran an article about the new trend of parents not permitting their children to sleep over at friends’ houses…ever.  The thinking is that there are too many things that could happen, and if your child is away from you for so long, you can’t be sure they’re safe.

That may sound over protective, but these parents might have a point.  Recent news stories have reported kids at sleepovers being molested by the family’s relatives and being exposed to movies and activities their own parents don’t approve of.  And we’re not talking about Mount Pilot, where everyone knows everyone; we might not know the families who are inviting our kids to spend the night.  How can we be sure they won’t put our child in a situation we wouldn’t approve of?

They have a point.  There are parents I trust, but who still make different choices than I would make. I still usually let them go…and then they come back asking me about something they saw on a PG-13 movie that I didn’t pre-screen.  But at least they ask.  I’m not willing to risk their safety, but I am willing to let them experience life beyond the boundaries of our family.  More often than not, they come home saying, “I had fun, but I like the way our family does things better.”

Of course I don’t want my kids molested.  We have a registered sex offender in our neighborhood, and I don’t let my son walk down that street alone.  But children are more likely to be molested by their own relatives than someone else’s, and I still let them spend time –even sleep over–with uncles, cousins, and grandfathers. And I let them go to school and church and youth group and church camping trips, too. All these places where something could happen!  Recently a girl was molested by a stranger in a Target, and a teenager was kidnapped from a Target parking lot.  And we still go to Target.

I’m not judging these overprotective parents.  Each of us has to make our choices to the best of our abilities, balancing safety and freedom, letting go as much as we can when we can. But we have to gradually allow them to be exposed to more and more things, people, and activities, while we are there to help them interpret those experiences.  Otherwise they’ll be socially crippled when they have to face those things alone.

I do let my kids go on sleepovers, and I have kids at my house (tonight I’ll have 6 kids at my house!).  But only with parents I know well.  And those parents return the favor, trusting me with their kids for a few hours.  I think that if parents talked to each other more, we could help each other calm down some, and alleviate these fears we all carry around.