They say that a happy, positive child can help him or her cope better with the trials of adulthood. And that while they are young, parents must be able to instill in them the positive attitude they will need to handle life better, as they grow older.
Children, especially in the awkward stage, may have a few self-doubts at this point. They may start forming a sense of who they are, based on the way they see other children and it’s up to the parents to help shape this with positive reinforcement.
1. Using positive words to discipline and guide children. They need words of encouragement more than anything. Telling them that they “can” instead of “can’t” do something or be something is more helpful to their self-esteem. Parents ought to be careful to not use degrading words but instead focus on things that are more positive.
2. Showing them that you listen to them is one way of encouraging positive thinking. Listening is just as important as being able to come to you and talk to you. When kids know that you are their sounding board, they learn to trust more and fear less.
3. Teach them to show gratitude. Not a lot of kids know these anymore. A mere thank you goes a long way and your children must be taught the value of this. They must be also made to see it, so practice what you preach and apply attitude of gratitude as well.
Children learn a lot by example and if we keep showing them that there are many things to be positive for, they will hopefully pick up on this and incorporate it in their lives as well.
