Bickering between brothers and sisters is normal, but sometimes this can go overboard and someone ends up getting hurt by it. You can put a stop to sibling rivalry by doing the following with the children.
1. Motivate the children into supporting each other. Let the older brother help with the younger sibling with his school work and compliment him for it. This will encourage the older one to be a lot more nicer to the younger sibling.
2. Let the younger sometimes have first dibs with privileges in the house, this way, there will no be resentment of the older one gets first in everything.
3. Have an alone time with each of your child every week. Spending time with each one of them and giving them quality each lets them feel how valuable they are to you. This time alone must be done with each of the parents. Creating special bonding times with each of your child and follow this schedule to the letter.
4. Give the child time to spend time together by themselves as well. Over time they really have to get along and get to know each other. At first, it may be impossible to do, one of the kids may be reluctant. But if you keep at it, they will eventually see how much the other brother or sister can be fun to hang around with.
5. Do fun activities together as a family, regularly. Start a crafting project for example and have all of the family involved in this. It would help strengthen the bond between siblings and the whole family.
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